Why we don’t give up on marriage

   We stood at my apartment door after our first date–dinner at a Chinese restaurant. Surely a kiss was imminent, I thought. But, no, DH explained that he was not going to kiss me because he wanted to “do things…

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I love a good giggle-gasm

   I was waiting for DH in the bedroom, a little tipsy from the red Zinfandel I finished off and buck naked.  I had applied some lube to the area that needed it the most these days. DH entered the…

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Taking orgasm off the menu

   I like a good orgasm. Heck, I’ll take a mediocre one. Ideally, I want my orgasm and then his. I’ve always been goal-oriented when it comes to sex. The problem is that orgasm is not a light switch you…

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My Daily Sexy Journal II

   So nice to see you back at the Journal. I promised I would pick this back up in 2020, and here we are! My “Daily Sexy” Journal is an exercise in observation, noticing little moments that make me feel…

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How we fought for our marriage and improved our sex life

  Guest Post by Jameson L. Welcome to my first guest post writer, Jameson. I was inspired by his relationship so I asked him to share it with you. He and his wife have fought the good fight and are…

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Where The Sex List took us

   Maybe you’ve done this, too: compile a Sex List. My most recent Sex List was a combination of “Have you ever…?” and “Do you want to try…?” Sex in a car – check. One night stand – check. Flirted…

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