Category : Sex

When sex is fresh and urgent

  For the first time in three weeks, our warm torsos touched. His hand caressed my back, exploring my waist and then hips. I had missed his hands on me but this felt new, a deliberate relearning. He pulled me…

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Thou shalt not compare your sex life

  Here’s a saying I learned long ago: “When you compare yourself to someone else, you will always come out less than.” So why in the world, when musing about our own sex lives, would we compare ourselves to others–or…

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Why I love sex in my 50s

  I love sex. I love everything about it and the way it makes me feel–happy, warm, contented. Sex in my 50s has challenges but it also has rewards. Here’s my list of the good stuff. My partner knows me…

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The sex swing experiment

  Like a no-holds-barred shower scene in a porn movie, a sex swing promises a hot, passionate orgasm-fest. In reality, what it delivers is an experiment testing your ability to overcome awkwardness. DH bought us a sex swing as a…

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Why I relate to sexless marriage

  I do not live in a sexless marriage. DH and I still desire one another and have sex regularly. But we have had, for lack of a better concept, sexless periods in our marriage. And frankly, I’m not having…

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Getting a workout on the treadmill

  It was late and I had just started programming the treadmill in our bedroom. DH walked toward me with intent on his face. He pulled up my shirt and yanked down my bra, extracting my right breast, as I…

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