Tie me up gently

   It wasn’t a proper tying up and he knew it. He had grabbed one of his ties—blue with a white diamonds. He roughly pushed my hands above my head and wound the tie around my wrists, whispering fiercely that…

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Why I have sex when I don’t really feel like it

   For years, I thought I need to be in the mood first before I could have sex. Aroused and lusty. Wanting DH to put his hands all over me in the worst way. Well, at this point in my…

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What a man needs to know about menopause

   I am no longer myself. I have been in perimenopause for about three years. This is the time before my  periods have completely stopped for a year, at which time I cross the line into menopause. But in the…

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When sex is fresh and urgent

   For the first time in three weeks, our warm torsos touched. His hand caressed my back, exploring my waist and then hips. I had missed his hands on me but this felt new, a deliberate relearning. He pulled me…

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Appreciating my curves without grumbling

   I was complaining again. Whining about my inability to lose weight. My time-tested methods no longer worked on my age 50-plus body. DH rolled his eyes. “Yeah, right. You’re a cow,” he said. Translation: “I don’t want to discuss…

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Our house needs more streaking

   One weekday morning, I was working from home at the kitchen table, absorbed in a training document. Suddenly, I heard a boom, boom, boom in the hallway. I knew DH was in the bedroom but what was that odd…

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