Here’s a saying I learned long ago: “When you compare yourself to someone else, you will always come out less than.” So why in the world, when musing about our own sex lives, would we compare ourselves to others–or…
Author : sexykay
Relationships
Advice from a husband with too much wife
Before you go thinking that being married to DW is a bed of rose petals, DH answers questions he has heard about being DW’s long-suffering spouse. Q: How did you get such a sexually adventurous wife? A: Actually,…
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Why I love sex in my 50s
I love sex. I love everything about it and the way it makes me feel–happy, warm, contented. Sex in my 50s has challenges but it also has rewards. Here’s my list of the good stuff. My partner knows me…
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The sex swing experiment
Like a no-holds-barred shower scene in a porn movie, a sex swing promises a hot, passionate orgasm-fest. In reality, what it delivers is an experiment testing your ability to overcome awkwardness. DH bought us a sex swing as a…
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Why I relate to sexless marriage
I do not live in a sexless marriage. DH and I still desire one another and have sex regularly. But we have had, for lack of a better concept, sexless periods in our marriage. And frankly, I’m not having…
