Author : sexykay

Waiting impatiently for bedroom sex

Darling Husband rarely minces words. To my point is his direct phrase, “So, you you want to fuck?” And my answer–because this request always catches me off guard–is “Uh, yes!” The balance of sexual power, at least in the timing…

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In The Mood, Again

This book promises a lot, if you read the back cover and the reviews. I’m not buying it. Granted, there are a lot of ideas in this book I liked, the main one being that desire is paramount to having…

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Why we don’t give up on marriage

  We stood at my apartment door after our first date–dinner at a Chinese restaurant. Surely a kiss was imminent, I thought. But, no, DH explained that he was not going to kiss me because he wanted to “do things…

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I love a good giggle-gasm

  I was waiting for DH in the bedroom, a little tipsy from the red Zinfandel I finished off and buck naked.  I had applied some lube to the area that needed it the most these days. DH entered the…

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The Seven Principles for Making Marriage Work

If you have read about a researcher who is able predict if couples will divorce after listening to their conversations for five minutes, this is that guy. John Gottman has been researching relationships and what makes them tick since the…

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Taking orgasm off the menu

  I like a good orgasm. Heck, I’ll take a mediocre one. Ideally, I want my orgasm and then his. I’ve always been goal-oriented when it comes to sex. The problem is that orgasm is not a light switch you…

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