Author : sexykay

Would you call your marriage “stable”?

  The word “stable” reeks of cable knit sweaters and calling each other “Dear.” It sounds, well, dusty. I don’t want to be dusty or dull. Far from it! I want to be sexy, fun, risk-taking, flirty, even dangerous…in my…

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How much sex is normal over 50?

  I used to wonder if Darling Husband and I were having a “normal” amount of sex. I think it’s a common worry especially when you are over 50, but it’s not a topic you bring up with a stranger…

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Sex for Grown-Ups

Great sex after 50. Who doesn’t want that?! Sex after 50, 60, 70 and even 80 is possible. Our hormones may be dropping but our sensuality is expanding, one of the benefits of over-50 sex. Your body is changing, so…

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My doctor is involved in my sex life

  Here’s me, speaking to my gynecologist at a recent annual appointment: Doctor: Do you have sex? (I guess that’s a good question. Not everyone has sex, even married people.) Me: Yes! I had sex last night! (I was speaking…

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You’re not alone in this thing, he said

  I was worried and I couldn’t shut my brain off. It scared me shitless and I wasn’t sure why. I was an adult with life experience. What was the problem? DH and I were talking about moving. Granted, we’ve…

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I have sex so I don’t forget how to

  I was reading a book about sex over 50 and was getting scared. It had been weeks since we last got frisky. I didn’t want my mind and body to forget how to have sex. I want my sensuality…

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