The word “stable” reeks of cable knit sweaters and calling each other “Dear.” It sounds, well, dusty. I don’t want to be dusty or dull. Far from it! I want to be sexy, fun, risk-taking, flirty, even dangerous…in my…
Category : Relationships
My doctor is involved in my sex life
Here’s me, speaking to my gynecologist at a recent annual appointment: Doctor: Do you have sex? (I guess that’s a good question. Not everyone has sex, even married people.) Me: Yes! I had sex last night! (I was speaking…
How we stay intimate when the empty nest doesn’t stay empty
We have one of those bounce-back kids. Due to Darling Son’s school and now work, he was gone, then back, then gone, and now he’s back. So the effect on us has been: empty nest, kid is home, empty…
Why we don’t give up on marriage
We stood at my apartment door after our first date–dinner at a Chinese restaurant. Surely a kiss was imminent, I thought. But, no, DH explained that he was not going to kiss me because he wanted to “do things…
My Daily Sexy Journal II
So nice to see you back at the Journal. I promised I would pick this back up in 2020, and here we are! My “Daily Sexy” Journal is an exercise in observation, noticing little moments that make me feel…
How we fought for our marriage and improved our sex life
Guest Post by Jameson L. Welcome to my first guest post writer, Jameson. I was inspired by his relationship so I asked him to share it with you. He and his wife have fought the good fight and are winning….