I’m a fan of men and I’m a fan of Gail Sheehy. This book made sense to me. Through hundreds of interviews, Sheehy thoroughly describes the state of being male today. Inspired by her husband’s mid-life search for meaning, this…
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Why I love fireplace season
The biting wind reminded me that fall was on its way out, soon to be replaced by winter snow and cold rain. DH shuffled through the back door, arms full of wood for the wood stove. Soon, sultry heat…
Things we think about that our kids do not
Let’s face it. Over 50, we start feeling our age just a little. Granted, our brains are still 25-years-old. So I was thinking about this dichotomy: things that a 50-year-old thinks about which would not even occur to a…
Having sex well into her sixties
DH was watching TV and waited while I thoroughly kissed him all over his face. I wanted to do so much more than kiss. The conversation went like this: DH: You realize I’m being really patient right now… DW:…
Beer30: How talking saved our marriage
We call it beer30. It’s the time of day that DH and I get together and talk for about an hour. We do this almost every day before dinner. He has an IPA craft beer and I have red…