He and I were walking down a carpeted hallway, making weekend talk. His upcoming barbeque, my work in the garden. Our friendship. Our comfort with each other. The rising of the warm feeling was subtle. Soft embers crept from…
What is EMOTIONAL INTIMACY anyway?
Okay, so time for me to fess up. Darling Husband and I dance in the kitchen to “Nothing’s Gonna Stop Us Now” by Starship. What you don’t know is that the song brings us to tears. Not just once…
What are SEX TOYS anyway?
Say hello to a new series: “What is (fill in the blank) anyway?” We’re going to explore topics about sexuality like desire, arousal, intimacy, and more. So why not begin with my favorite topic: “What are sex toys anyway?” Sex…
Why my man doing housework turns me on
Remember your parents and how they divided what needed to be done? Housework and childcare were usually the woman’s job–100% hers. And if you have spent even three hours taking care of a couple of small children and tried…
When we scared each other in bed
Darling Husband goes to be about an hour before me. When I come to bed and scoot under the covers on my side, he might be fast asleep or he might still be awake. He sleeps with his…
Why I traded corsets for negligees
I own two stunning satin corsets. One is royal blue and black, while the other is demure pink and black. Delicate black lace accents the silky material, and each corset laces from navel to cleavage. Did I mention that…