Remember your parents and how they divided what needed to be done? Housework and childcare were usually the woman’s job–100% hers. And if you have spent even three hours taking care of a couple of small children and tried…
Love
When we scared each other in bed
Darling Husband goes to be about an hour before me. When I come to bed and scoot under the covers on my side, he might be fast asleep or he might still be awake. He sleeps with his…
Sex
Why I traded corsets for negligees
I own two stunning satin corsets. One is royal blue and black, while the other is demure pink and black. Delicate black lace accents the silky material, and each corset laces from navel to cleavage. Did I mention that…
Relationships
When my husband looks at other women
I don’t get upset if DH looks at other women. Part of the reason is this: I understand that men do that all the time. They can’t help it. They are hard-wired to notice, glance at, and even gawk…
Relationships
How to sex me up with random acts of kindness
You’ve heard there is nothing sexier than a man with soap suds up to his elbows at the kitchen sink. The suds aren’t sexy. It’s the random act of kindness. I remember early in our marriage when I came…
Love
The real reason I sleep on my right side
Sleeping with another person is complicated. If you’ve slept with another person for over a week, you understand. I’m not going to go into the tossing and turning, sleep talking, snoring, restless legs, Charley horses, farts, and then getting…
