Here’s a saying I learned long ago: “When you compare yourself to someone else, you will always come out less than.” So why in the world, when musing about our own sex lives, would we compare ourselves to others–or…
Category : Sex
Sex
Why I love sex in my 50s
I love sex. I love everything about it and the way it makes me feel–happy, warm, contented. Sex in my 50s has challenges but it also has rewards. Here’s my list of the good stuff. My partner knows me…
Sex
The sex swing experiment
Like a no-holds-barred shower scene in a porn movie, a sex swing promises a hot, passionate orgasm-fest. In reality, what it delivers is an experiment testing your ability to overcome awkwardness. DH bought us a sex swing as a…
Sex
Why I relate to sexless marriage
I do not live in a sexless marriage. DH and I still desire one another and have sex regularly. But we have had, for lack of a better concept, sexless periods in our marriage. And frankly, I’m not having…
Sex
Getting a workout on the treadmill
It was late and I had just started programming the treadmill in our bedroom. DH walked toward me with intent on his face. He pulled up my shirt and yanked down my bra, extracting my right breast, as I…
Sex
Boobs pressed against his chest
One night before dinner, DH and I met in the hallway. He opened his arms and I instinctively fell into his hug, brushing his face with mine. His skin was warm and smooth. As we embraced, his guttural “Aahhhh”…
