I’m not feeling sexy right now. I’m preoccupied with bills, kids, chores. I want to feel sexy. So badly. To feel that confidence. To have a mental tingle. Adrenaline surging, having its way with me. I’ve had times where…
Love
Why it’s okay if he doesn’t listen
I really am okay when DH isn’t listening to me. Let me explain. I do love when DH listens to me intently, asks questions, comments thoughtfully. That attention makes me feel loved and supported. He knows I like to…
Relationships
Join me in my flirting game
Come with me to my local Starbucks. The dark brown leather couches in the back and the two-top tables are always full. So we’ll sit at that lone table over by the front door, coffees in hand. The table…
Whispers
Whispers from a suede blazer
A brown suede blazer occupied the window seat already. I took my aisle seat next to the blazer, the morning sun straining to get past the plastic airliner sunshade. This was a rare but stressful trip, delivering my father-in-law…
Relationships
Call strong, sexy women what they are: Experienced
I think I’ve solved a current day riddle: What do we call women of a certain age? It’s a conundrum because you sometimes need a adjective to qualify a woman when you are, say, telling a story. And you…
Sex
Sex with whom?
The pre-surgery drugs were kicking in and DH was a little loopy. He was slurring his words, eyes slightly closed. Plus he was being uncharacteristically cheeky with the nurses. Finally the doctor, whom I had never met, came to…
