Beer30: How talking saved our marriage

   We call it beer30. It’s the time of day that DH and I get together and talk for about an hour. We do this almost every day before dinner. He has an IPA craft beer and I have red…

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The head turner with the silver hair

   On a whim, I posted this on social media: “For the past few years, I have told my hairdressers to let the grey show. We call the silver strands ‘platinum highlights.’ Dyeing them away is a losing battle, after…

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My “Daily Sexy” Journal I

 It’s a moment–sometimes fleeting, sometimes memorable. I feel beautiful. Confident. Like a sex goddess. What if I could intentionally notice those moments, and string them together day after day? What would the cumulative effect be? So I thought, “Self, you…

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I just want to have raw sex

   Recently, DH and I had a hot round of sex. Which is extraordinary because it was like the eye of the hurricane we find our lives inside of right now. The candlelight coitus was accompanied by whispered naughty fantasies…

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We aren’t speaking right now

   DH and I aren’t speaking to each other right now. This doesn’t happen often. But we are stuck, really stuck. The problem is finances again. We say a few words here and there to be civil. I have tried…

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Why dads are so sexy

   I’m attracted to men who are dads. I mean, really attracted. I’m talking about the average guy I see in the grocery store whom I know nothing about. I look for dads, see if I can catch their eye,…

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